Bhanwari Bai
Right from the beginning, I have been working for the rights of the marginalised
communities. In 1984, we celebrated Ambedkar Jayanti and invited women who
were linked to the Adult Education Society and Ambedkar Samiti in Ajmer. We
discussed various social and economic inequalities prevailing in society and took a
collective decision to approach the police and the legal system to demand justice
for the Dalits and other marginalised groups. Many opponents, who were curious
to know what was happening at the meeting, began stoning us and tore the tent
where we had gathered. They realised I was leading the meeting and decided to
teach me a lesson.
A few days after this incident, when my daughter had gone to the fields, a boy
from the Yadav community raped her. Due to the trauma that came from the
incident, she lost her mental balance. A meeting of the panchs from three villages
was called. I was paid Rs. 1,100/- as compensation but was excommunicated from
my caste. Miserable and lost, I sold the few goats I had, locked up my house and
shifted to Ajmer from my village.
I spent the night on the streets which worsened my daughter’s condition. She
began abusing and screaming loudly. I did not know whom to approach and then
came across a group of Christian missionaries. They offered me some money to
purchase food and informed me about women from the Samanvay Samiti. I
approached them for help, and from then on, I made a resolution to help every
woman who was a victim of violence. In the initial years, my work involved
campaigning for the rights of the people displaced due to the construction of the
Bisalpur Dam. This is where I learnt how to mobilise women for collective
struggles. My quest for justice for women sufferers of violence continues to date.
Founding member and Coordinator, MJAS
Bardi Bai
I lost my father to tuberculosis at the age of four. My mother worked as a village
midwife and supported the family. I accompanied my sister to school and
continued my studies until Class VII. Then, at the age of 12 my mother fixed my
marriage with Chhotu Lal of the neighbouring village. He was not literate. I went
to my husband’s house (after gauna) at the age of 16 but soon realised that he did
not do any work and was an alcoholic. He would beat me regularly. I was not
given food or allowed to interact with the neighbours or even my own family
members. At the age of 18, I gave birth to a son, but the violence continued. Fed
up with my circumstances, I went back to my mother’s house. I told her that I’d
rather survive by begging than go back so she was compelled to keep me in her
house.
About a year later, I was sent into nata with Chanda Ram Bhil and my first
husband was given a sum of Rs. 700 in exchange. My second husband was
involved in brewing illicit liquor and would force me to have sexual relations with
other men. This became a daily routine. At one point, I couldn’t take the torture
anymore, and went back to stay at my mother’s house. I also began working as
domestic help in the sarpanch’s house.
Around this time, the IDARA functionaries in Ajmer were looking for saathins for
the Women’s Development Programme. Upon hearing my story, they (Indira and
other WDP functionaries) visited my village. They met me and felt that I was
courageous, educated and bold and would be able to raise women’s issues. I was
selected as a saathin in 1984. Initially, I was scared to take up this work but agreed
to attend the first training after the sarpanch of my village spoke to me. During the
training, just sitting on the same durrie as the other women was significant for me.
It led to shifting my perspective on women’s rights in public spaces. Slowly, I
began contacting the women in my village and forming women’s collectives. We
took up issues related to violence against women including sexual violence within
and outside the home, minimum wages, clean drinking water, education and
health. In 1990-91, the Bisalpur Dam construction started in Tonk district. I joined
the Samanvay Samiti to work for the rights of the displaced. We put up a huge
struggle for their rehabilitation and compensation. We demanded that each
displaced person including women and girls be allotted a plot of land in their
name.
Founding member, MJAS